Progress Over Perfection: How Small Steps Create a Healthier, Happier You
- Alexa Talkington
- 4 days ago
- 2 min read
Updated: 3 hours ago
When it comes to living a healthier, more natural lifestyle, it’s easy to feel like you have to do everything perfectly — eat only organic, avoid every toxin, never eat out, and live a life that looks nothing like the real world.
But here’s the truth: perfection is not the goal.
Real Life Still Happens
We still eat out.
We still have weekend movie nights.
We still go to friends’ birthday parties — and yes, we eat the cake.
Because life is meant to be enjoyed. Living well isn’t about restriction or guilt; it’s about creating balance that feels sustainable. That’s why I follow what I call the 80/20 rule — aiming for about 80% nourishing, intentional choices and leaving 20% for flexibility, fun, and the moments that make life full.
Start Where You Are
You might not be anywhere near that 80% yet, and that’s completely okay. This isn’t about hitting a number — it’s about progress.
You’re far more likely to stick with healthy habits if you make small, gradual changes rather than trying to overhaul your entire lifestyle overnight. Maybe that looks like cooking at home a few more nights a week, swapping out one product for a cleaner version, or taking a walk instead of scrolling before bed.
Every step counts.
Focus on Progress, Not Perfection
When you start shifting your focus toward progress, you’ll notice how much lighter this journey feels. The goal is to make consistent moves toward:
Eating more nutrient-dense foods that fuel your body
Sleeping better and creating nighttime routines that help you rest
Reducing stress and building in moments of calm
Moving your body in ways that bring you joy
The magic happens when these changes start to build on one another — not when they happen all at once.
My Journey Toward a More Natural Lifestyle
My journey didn’t start with an overnight transformation — it began with one small, intentional choice. Seven years ago, while I was pregnant, I swapped my deodorant for a cleaner option. It felt like such a simple thing, but it sparked a curiosity that changed everything.
From that one swap came another, and then another. I started paying attention — not out of fear, but out of a deep desire to feel my best. Over time, I noticed more energy, clearer skin, better sleep, and a stronger connection to my body and my values.
That’s when I realized: living a more natural lifestyle isn’t about giving things up — it’s about gaining freedom. Freedom from constant fatigue, confusing labels, and feeling out of sync with yourself.
And that’s what I want for you too.
Your future self is cheering you on — proud that you started, even if it’s imperfect. Because this is a journey you truly won’t regret.
The Bottom Line
Perfection isn’t sustainable — but progress is. The goal isn’t to live a flawless “clean” life, it’s to create a lifestyle that makes you feel good, one choice at a time.
Start small. Stay consistent. And give yourself grace along the way.




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